Runner Chaser Dynamic
Twin Flames runner and chaser game starts and seems like a never ending process, here is an insight on twin flame runner chaser dynamic.
One twin flame, at this point, takes the role of the ‘Runner’ (which is usually the masculine no matter which gender as soul doesn’t have gender).
The twin flame runner tries to avoid the partner and runaway from the relationship.
This happens because the twin flame runner doesn’t consciously know what is going on and feels like he’s losing control. The twin flame runner feels fear from intense love at this point. He or she has a fear from his old heartaches and feel like unconditional love never existed. To defense himself, he builds up huge walls to protect himself from the pain of true love.
He or she meets someone who will help them to repeat his patterns of abuse, abandonment, betrayal and deprivation. This happens because those people feel familiar. Unfortunately, in childhood, the people whom he or she trusted the most – were the most familiar – hurt them the most. Therefore, the effect is that he or she keeps repeating their patterns and perceptions of their subconscious mind and being given the reminder that it is not safe to trust them or other people.
The twin flame runner, trying to ignore the partner, runs away from him/her because of the overwhelming and unconscious feeling of what is going on. He or she will feel like he/she is losing control and the feeling will begin to scare him/her. Usually, the runner is the one who is more unprepared or less mature to spirituality.
The other twin flame will then take the role of the chaser.
Twin Flame Chaser Perspective
The other twin flame, now, becomes the twin flame chaser(usually the feminine).
The chaser is spiritually more aware than the runner at some level and tries to chase or run after the runner. In some level, the chaser is more spiritually aware than the runner.
He or she has more understanding on how to handle the soul relationship so she tries to chase after the runner. The chaser usually will get that instinct of what is really happening, feeling that this is just a tough phase to overcome, and it’s the part of soul meeting and that it will be the need of him/her to chase in order to have a reunion again to heal the runner and the her/himself also.
The twin flame chaser usually wants some sort of commitment at this point.
This happens as the chaser subconsciously or consciously wants to get over with this tough phase, so that both of them can reunite.
The twin flame chaser is deeply shocked and hurt by the running, ignoring and unexpected behavior of the runner. This is when, they feel the need to understand what is really happening and so they start searching or reading about it.
This usually leads to the enlightenment of the chaser.
The awakening process starts here for chaser.
The twin flame runner becomes spiritually enlightened too, either through the chaser’s conscious effort to remind the runner about the soul connection or by receiving a shock to the soul when the chaser gives up, surrendered and goes away from the runner twin flame.
Here the chaser surrendered but with very high frequency of vibrations and have love in the heart in spite of let go.
The more the twin flame runner runs, the phase gets stretched longer and takes more time for reunion.
Ultimately, the runner returns and the karma is fully resolved finally, but it may be an infinite cycle of reuniting and again runner and chaser stage. Sometimes, runner becomes chaser and vice-versa.
This stage can differ between twin-flame couples.
Some may easily resolve this stage, and some will take up much longer in separation time.
It depends on the preparedness level of both the souls.
One or both twins become emotionally and mentally flooded with deep pain from what feels like soul-level rejection and abandonment.
The unbearable soul-level pain leads one or both twins to withdraw physically and block communication in fear and futility.
One or both twins may unsuccessfully try to re-create the original harmony and peace.